Visa marriage is the marriage which most of the time done by men to get the visa (permanent resident or citizenship) to stay in visa wife's country, and of course it's a crime in marriage because it brings a lot of disadvantages towards the visa wives. Visa marriage is same as scam or fraud but it's covered by love.
This visa marriage is mostly done by Pakistani, Indian, Morrocan, Afghani, and other men from poor and conflict countries.
Pakistan and India are developing countries, according to the CIA ( Central Intelligence Agency ) data of average income in Pakistan. Pakistan is only 1 rank above Sudan. Which means the economy condition in Pakistan almost same as Sudan. It’s also reported in MPI index 2015 that 40 % of Pakistani live under poverty line. There are many poor people in Pakistan and less job vacancy, which pays good. This also happens in India. Check the complete data here.
cia.gov
The responsibility of Pakistani man towards his family, poverty and also the Pakistani lifestyle, it makes the man needs to find the way to fulfill the family's needs. According to these reasons, Pakistani and Indian will do anything to make them out of their countries. That's why so many Pakistanis and Indians want to marry foreigners only to get visa in order to make a lot of money and change their life overseas. So far, visa marriage is the easiest way and is also cheaper to get permanent residency or citizenship for these men.
The wing guy is the the most popular trick among Pakistani and Indian men to get a girl including to get a visa wife. The Pakistani man's friends or cousins will help him to get the target. They will be his matchmaker and teacher to get the visa. These wing guys also are willing to confirm the fake story that is made by this Pakistani man about his financial, family, marriage status and many more. Likewise, the wing guy trick is the most effective way to get a visa wife so far rather than by online dating site or chat app. The target will feel more comfortable and can open herself easily if she is introduced to this Pakistani man by another guy whom she knows.
The target girl will think the guys whom she know will not throw her to the predators but she is completely wrong because the wing guys will white washing their hands after she finds out that she becomes the target of visa marriage. The Pakistani brotherhood's bond is strong, therefore, these wing guys will stand by their mate's side because this Pakistani man is their friend or cousin, and the target girl is just "a girl". Nevertheless, many women also got married to these men whom they met online without realizing it’s a visa marriage because they think their man is different, he is her soulmate, and they believe their man loves her so much with sincere.
The Marriage Life in Visa Marriage
In our community we have so many visa marriage cases, and the things that mostly happen to them :
1. The Pakistani man doesn't really care if the visa wife doesn't want to change her western lifestyle
He wants the visa wife feel comfortable, because he needs to stay in her country and make a lot of money to be sent to Pakistan. According to the cases that we have in community, some Pakistani families know that their sons did visa marriage, and some of families don't. When the Pakistani family support the visa marriage, all of the members will help the son in order to get the visa. If the son already married in Pakistan, the Pakistani wife and the entire family members will shut their mouths up and they will not tell anything about the Pakistani wife to the visa wife. All of he family members will treat the visa wife nicely and accept her western life style, Although the family itself is conservative. Some of the visa marriage victims got to know that they are in polygamous marriage after years, even we have case went the victim found out about that after 8 years of marriage.
If the family doesn't bless the visa marriage, which done by the son. The Pakistani man will not bring the wife to Pakistan, he might travel to Pakistan regularly but without the visa wife---he travels alone. This not only happens to the visa marriage wife, but also to the life--partner and the run--marriage wife.
2. The Pakistani man will not force the visa wife to convert to Islam, and he doesn't care about his visa wife status and age
The unmarried young Pakistani man marry a widow or divorced woman with kids who is older than him in Pakistan could be a problem in Pakistani society, but it won't be a problem anymore for him and his family as long as he can get the visa or green card, so his family will get a better life.
Even if the woman is too old and cannot get pregnant anymore it shouldn’t be a problem for this man because he needs visa and he will marry another young woman and he can have baby with this young fertile woman.
Having a child in Pakistan and India is very important, but if this man want to use the woman for visa, they even don’t care if they marry barren or old woman from different religion.
3. The Pakistani man will work so hard in the visa wife's country and he will send a lot of money to his family in Pakistan
He needs to stay in his visa wife's country to make a lot of money for his family in Pakistan. In some visa marriage cases, when the visa wife has a job, the salary of the wife will go for household bill while the income of Pakistani man already gone too much for his family in Pakistan. Some of the visa wives need to adjourn for having their own baby because they lack of money due to most of the money goes to Pakistan.
4. The chance to be in polygamous marriage increase by 80%
This case mostly happens after Pakistani man get Permanent Resident / Citizenship and settle in the visa wife's country. It can be around 3 to 10 years after the marriage. The Pakistani man will take a second Muslim Pakistani wife to be his wife and Why?
It's because wife in Pakistan is a part of family's pride. Therefore, he needs a wife whom he can show her to his Pakistani society in Pakistan and can be accepted by them. The western lifestyle never suit in Pakistani society. Pakistanis are proud of his own culture and have very high pride. The reputation is the most important thing to face their Pakistani society. In some cases, this case doesn't occur to the visa wife because the visa wife already converted and changed her western lifestyle. Nevertheless, we also found some cases when the visa wife already converted and changed her lifestyle but the Pakistani husband still took a Pakistani second wife because of the mother's will or because the visa wife is older than him and even too old to get pregnant.
"It's really important to make sure that the Pakistani mother likes you
and has no plan to replace you."
5. Maybe you are a second wife and your Pakistani man is actually already married and has another wife in Pakistan.
Our community has so many cases when the visa wife found out later on that her husband has wife and children in Pakistan before he married her. In most cases the truth is revealed after many years of marriage due to the Pakistani men are really good at keeping their secrets and the man also spoils the visa wife with many loves and affections. Even there is a case when the visa wife found out about it after 15 years of marriage. When the Pakistani husband travels to Pakistan several times alone (without visa wife) regularly; he sends a lot of money frequently to Pakistan; and when he goes back to Pakistan, he becomes busy and has less time for you then you need to be more cautious because maybe he has another wife in Pakistan.
We also have many cases in our community, when young Pakistani man married to the woman who is older than him and sometimes way too old for him. After many years of marriage and after he gets the visa or PR and settle in the visa wife’s country he marries younger woman behind his visa wife.
Divorcing the visa wife after the man get his citizenship is actually not common happened as Pakistani man mostly keeps the visa wife, but there are some cases when the Pakistani man divorced the visa wife because he wanted to bring his another wife and children to the visa wife’s country.
"Never trust what Pakistani man says easily,
always double check what he says and ask for proof."