About the Community

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We are non-Pakistani women married to Pakistani men. Some of us have lived in Pakistan, experiencing life within a Pakistani joint family. Others have been married for years, while some are just beginning their journey. We are outsiders in Pakistani society, yet deeply connected to its culture and traditions. We are Latino, Caucasian, Arab, and Asian women who share a common experience—navigating marriage, family, and life with a Pakistani partner.

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Our stories are unlike Bollywood fantasies filled with singing, dancing, and romantic adventures. Real life is far from what you see in the movies. While some of us have found happiness, many have faced challenges—visa scams, polygamy, divorce, joint family conflicts, domestic violence, and deceptive marriages. Over the past 15+ years, we have gathered real stories from women around the world who have married Pakistani men, offering insights into marriage laws, cultural differences, and the risks involved.

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We are here to share our knowledge, support, and advice with women seeking information about marrying a Pakistani man. If you are already married to one, know that you are not alone. Our community is open to new members who need guidance, friendship, and a place to share their experiences.

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Before You Say "Yes"—Ask Yourself:

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• Can I truly adjust to Pakistani culture and family expectations?

• What is my Pakistani man’s real intention? Is it love, or is it just for a visa and financial gain?

 

Do You Have These Questions?

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• “My Pakistani man’s mother disapproves of our marriage. What should I do?”

• “I have children from a previous relationship. Will he accept them?”

• “He says he loves me, but he’s already engaged to his cousin. What now?”

• “What is life like for a foreign woman in Pakistan?”

• “I’m not Muslim. Can he still marry me?”

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If you are looking for answers, support, or a place to share your experience, don’t hesitate to reach out.

You can contact us by email for a free consultation or join our WhatsApp group to connect with other women who have walked this path.

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See you soon. Allah Hafiz.

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