If it comes to dating, they can date anyone they want, a single mother, a young girl, an old lady or even a married woman. But if we talk about genuine marriage it’s different story. We have to find out their true intentions to marry, they are good at hiding things and playing a victim. Most Pakistani families in Pakistan cannot accept the children who are not from their blood. So what mostly happened when the mother has to live in Pakistan in a joint family house, she left her children in her country. If the family can accept easily without excuses it’s because the family wants the son to marry a woman for visa. Anyway, there are some cases in our community who could bring the children to live in Pakistan and the the Pakistan family accept the children. Although they live in separate house.
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jewelrytran
May 02, 2021
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I guess everywhere is always have that individual think the same ways ( I am Asian American, some family think the same ways as well, not only Pakistani family . That is why we need to get the individual that suite us, my man, he is in 2021, I am older, has kids , he is young single guy,who crazy about me , not for the visa coz I don't give it easily he knew that, I told him relationship needs to be work on and it is not about a day of wedding, marriage certificate or being approved by family, it is about both of us( leave others on the side, they don't live our lives)...relationshipsneed to be work on .i involve in his family,, they met me,, they say hi on video, they know every time we talk, ,it been more than 3 years ,so far so good ....we are in control....
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jewelrytran
Jan 23, 2021
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wendy5890
Jan 23, 2021
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They can accept or pretend to accept, normally the big family hardly to accept the kids, because not from their blood.
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Rosie Hicks
Jan 23, 2021
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I have a friend who has been dating a pakistani man for almost 4 years now. She has a kid and he told her he can't accept her daughter. Then her daughter's father gets custody of their daughter and she continues to date this pakistani man. A couple years into the relationship they have a baby, but they are only dating not married.
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jewelrytran
Jan 23, 2021
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Well it is all depends on each individual, my boyfriend ( husband) is Pakistani ,we exchange rings to ourselves, he always wears his ring , he is alots younger than me .we been seeing each others for 3 years in this March, I went there 2 times , stay a month each time , we are working on settle in either in US or Pakistan , all depends. I have mature kids , he has no problems with it , he asked me to marry him last Jan when I was there,but to me no hurry .I told him we nee to work on relationship and plan things out, not just do it ( it is on my side) ..yeah we talk 3-4 times a day, plan to see each others in Thailand when the pandemic is over....he is updated ..in 2021 not the typical Islamic ....
If it comes to dating, they can date anyone they want, a single mother, a young girl, an old lady or even a married woman. But if we talk about genuine marriage it’s different story. We have to find out their true intentions to marry, they are good at hiding things and playing a victim. Most Pakistani families in Pakistan cannot accept the children who are not from their blood. So what mostly happened when the mother has to live in Pakistan in a joint family house, she left her children in her country. If the family can accept easily without excuses it’s because the family wants the son to marry a woman for visa. Anyway, there are some cases in our community who could bring the children to live in Pakistan and the the Pakistan family accept the children. Although they live in separate house.
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