Finally, I decide to tell my story with my ex. Pakistani fiance.
I meet him online and we have online relationship. we were boy friend and girl friend for 1 year. Then he invited me to coming to Australia. He live there.
he said he will pay my visa and my tickets.
finally, I visited him in Australia and stay with him in Motel for 3 days.
he is really care man, he take care me and pay my food too. He brought me to some places in Melbourne. I have very nice holiday.
after 3 days, he brought me to stay in his house, there are 8 people in the house and all from Pakistan.
we have dinner together and BBQ party but I think most his roomates don't like me. And only some people nice to me.
one day, he said he want to marry me and I agree. I asked him for ring and he bought me a ring.
He said he will marry me in the mosque for my next visit.
in my last day, my ex fiance called taxi and his friend bring me to the airport because my ex fiance can't bring me because he have a job. his friend is taxi driver.
I have conversation with this taxi driver and I told him I'm not his friend but already become fiance. taxi driver look shock, he don't believe me and I told him I am not joking.
I asked him about my ex fiance and taxi driver said he is a nice guy. I told taxi I want to marry him and live in Australia and taxi driver said I can't apply PR so I can't stay in Australia. He said I need to wait for 3 or 4 years. I asked why and he said because they are immigrants and still wait until Australia government give them PR.
Actually, I am very shock because I want to live in Australia so much.
When I arrived in my country I video call my ex fiance and ask about PR and he said it's true.
And he said after he marry me, I will stay in my country and he will send me ticket to visit him in Australia, or he will visit me in my country. I am really disappointed, I don't want to live like that.
My friend told me I need to leave him and get other white man for my husband not him because he can't give me PR. I still confused and I don't know what to do.
After some weeks, I got friend requests on Facebook from Pakistani man. I remember this man he is in BBQ party in Australia. He sent me message too, he said he still remember me then he add me on Facebook, he said I am pretty too.
Actually I don't want to reply his message but I want to know about my ex fiance PR. I want to make sure if the taxi driver true.
And this man said to me, it's true and he told me all of them came to Australia with ship. He said people kill them in Pakistan, then they came to Australia.
When he told me about Pakistan, I'm curious about my ex fiance life in Pakistan. And he said he don't know much about my ex fiance, he only know my ex fiance have wife and children in Pakistan. This make me very shock. I told him I'm his fiance and he said he don't know about my status and after that he never contact me anymore.
I am very angry with my ex fiance and I called him, and he said it is true but he don't love his wife, it is arranged marriage and he love me and he want to marry me. He will send me the money every month after wedding too.
My friend told me to leave him because he don't have future and I can't stay in Australia quickly.
My friend gave me story from Internet about Pakistan immigrants and I agree with her.
I want to leave my country and live in western country. I decided to leave my ex fiance and try to find other man.
I read this website and I read about Pakistan is poor country and right now I feel glad because I leave him, because I don't want to live poor.
I think because I really want to live better life in western country I still can think better. If don't I think I will not leave my ex fiance.
@Tari : you should leave him unless you want to live in polygamous marriage life. You can block all of his contacts and find other men. I have many Pakistani male cousins and I really don’t like their behaviors most of them will chat with other women although they are married.
If it was arranged marriage they will say they don’t love their wives but if they married by love marriage (with non Pakistani) they also will say their wives like this and like that, mocking their wives so they can chat with other women without feeling guilty and the women can be sympathy with them.
These men just love flirting and chating alot you know!
that story same with me, first he say dont have wife but now i know he have wife and daughter in pakistan. i know that information from his best friend, i really want leave adn stop but he never want to stop all thing. he say he want choose self partner life mean love marriage coz he arrange marriage
Hello, thank you for sharing your story to us. Wishing you all the best!
Hai, my friend had same story with you too. They met in Malaysia and had luxury holiday in Thailand.
I don't know how her ex boyfriend has a lot of money but he said that he had a business in Dubai.
I told my friend about this website and another article that I found about Pakistani man, but she didn't trust me.
She was thinking her boyfriend would marry her but he never introduce her to his family. Only promises. Finally, I decided to make a fake FB account and seduced him, he ate the bait like a fish.
At this point I knew that this guy was playing around with girls.
I also tried to find her ex boyfriend's family on facebook but I couldn't find any. Till one day, my fake FB got friend request from an Arab man who turned out to be the ex boyfriend's coworker in Dubai.
After long conversation and a lot of effort for a month, finally I got the information that this Pakistani guy is married and has children in Pakistan.
I showed all the proofs to my friend and fortunately she gave up her relationship.
You should be more careful girls!