A Story from Malaysia

I'm Malaysian and I have a business in Malaysia. I met this Pakistani man when my life was so hard and I needed someone to support me.

I didn't really attract to this Pakistani man before but by the time he pursued me and did many sweet things to me, so he won my heart.

He said he was a business man, he owned a business in Malaysia, he was around 35 years old and he said he was divorced. His wife was Malaysian, he loved her but his wife cheated and took his money. He even couldn't met his own baby anymore. He also showed me all the proofs to make me believe that his ex Malaysian wife cheated on him. He was really smart to tell me his story so I really put my empathy to him and saw him was a very sincere man with soft heart.

He said to me he came to Malaysia on social visa so he could stay in Malaysia longer to take care of his own business. He was so decent man, he wore good clothes and I believed because he looked like a business man. He also gave me many luxury things.

He was so caring to me even was nice to my children. He always had time whenever I needed him, I felt I was so special and he treated me like a queen in his life.

To make it short, there are many advises came to me about Pakistani men and many people warned me. It's because in Malaysia many Pakistani men use local women either for their own pleasure or advantage. They will use the locals to get Malaysian IC ( permanent resident ) or to open a business in Malaysia under their wives name, after they too many loans and their business bankrupt they would leave the wife with many debt.

Many Pakistani men stay in Malaysia illegally, Many of them came to Malaysia in very young age because they are so poor in Pakistan and they try to marry Malaysian so they can stay in Malaysia and use their wives property and money to survive.

I didn't think this kind of story would happen to me, I thought my Pakistani man was different. I took very long time for me before I knew the truth.

I really grateful that God saved me, I came across his Malaysian wife by coincidence. I decided to meet her and her family. This man never divorce his Malaysian wife, even this wife is so young, she got married in very young age even she didn't finish her study in university because she was so falling in love with this man and was crazy to marry him.

The parents said to me that this man used their daughter to get Malaysia IC and I shouldn't trust this man, they also told me that this man tried to get other women too, especially the rich one, so not only me. he doesn't have a business in Malaysia, all many he got came from his rich girlfriends.

I was really upset to see the truth but I'm glad God saved me before it's too late.

So for Malaysian readers here, if you meet a Pakistani man, you should really be careful because many cases happened like this in Malaysia and in our country we have many Pakistani who stay in here illegally or on temporary visa and they try to make their way to survive in Malaysia in any way includes using the local women. Even there are many cases too in Malaysia when these young beautiful Pakistani men married to old Malaysians around 50 to 70 years old to get Malaysia IC.

Be careful and don't trust to your Pakistani man easily, don't fall in love to them blindly, do many investigations and observations before you marry him and ask God to help you too.