I found this website on google and I read this because I was curios. Honestly reading all the sad stories from the sisters her made me as a Pakistani man feel bad.
The wrong Pakistani guy comes to you, they should represent Pakistan but as you know not all people in the world are good, these Pakistani guys are completely lost. I don't feel good to know many of them these days using western woman to get green card. They are just so eager to go abroad in order to earn money. They saw the men before them are successful overseas which make them start dreaming to have life like them. They are willing to sell their principal to get green card, they don't care anymore about religion, culture, and age.
In my case I married to non Pakistani too, but I didn't use her to get PR or green card. She is a non Muslim and actually being married to non Muslim for Pakistani man like me who still hold the root is not easy. I was young at that time, and now in my age I have to pay my consequence. Sometimes, I imagine if I married to a Muslim Pakistani, I would have different life and my children would have different manner. When you get old you will be more wise and you just want a peace in your life.
Most of the time, I regret my decision to marry non Muslim and non Pakistani woman, when I saw my children grew up and they act exactly like western. I keep saying to my nephews that they shouldn't sell their identity and never considered to marry a non Muslim and white people even if it's only to get a green card.
I am Asian American, I believe doesn't matter who you married to ( Muslim or Non-Muslims) it is how you raise your kids. i have been dating a Pakistani for almost 3 years , he is not for green card, and I dint date him to do that , let is be natural. I explore the country, cultures, ....I have seen Pakistani woman, man who live in Pakistan don't live up to their culture nowadays, I don't blame them, they need to look outside of the box, not live under parents designed as an adult , marry cousins , arranged marriage especially we are in 2020 soon 2021, parents don't care their children happiness but themselves. I am glad that my man ,he looks as in a different perspective that he live to make himself happy ( not relatives happiness, ofcourse he respects family and taking care of his family ) but he choose who he wants to be with ,